Then I heard this:
"Maids arrive earlier, great ladies arrive later. It was only the queen always arrives just in time."
There was a time when we had Quick visits parties, now called speed dating. It happened like this:
Some suitors sat at a few tables. The girls went from table to table, getting to know the men. Every woman spends five minutes with each man. Then, all the ladies get up and move to another table and get acquainted with another man. And so it goes in a circle until everyone got acquainted. All participants wrote down who they liked and with whom they still would like to talk to. Then look at the results, and if there was a mutual desire, we organized a second meeting, which lasted for 10 minutes. Then, the same scenario, third, fourth, to the final result.
And here's what we found.
In this list, women reported being interested in 80% of men for a second talk, third and so on. At that time, the men were only interested in 20% of the women.
The next time, we decided to change the places of the men and women. Now at the tables were women, and the men were moving in a circle. The results were exactly the opposite! Now the women reported 20% of men with whom would like to meet a second time, while men said 80% of women.
On this basis, we can conclude that it is always the winning position to be the one who comes out on a date first and calmly waits for his belated partner.
The one who comes second has to have a good chance to fall in love at first sight. The one who's already sitting and waiting is more relaxed and has a chance to begin to assess the other from a distance.
So, ladies can forget the old rule that no self-respecting woman should be a little late! It works against latecomers, as the latecomer is always in the position being evaluated. The later you are, the worse it gets.
In life, of course anything can happen. Not always be able to come first everywhere, but on a first date if you want to make a good first impression, come on time!
Ideally, on the first date is for you to go to meet each other, so neither you nor your partner have a chance to either assess or be assessed! But there the best chance to fall in love, it's so cool! I remember the moment I met my husband. We met through a dating service and made a date at a restaurant. It so happened that we arrived at the same time, and walked towards each other. I remember that my thoughts were busy: how do I look, hair good, shoes were new and huge heels. I just looked into his eyes, as in a mirror - everything is normal? Yes, exactly like in the mirror! A large mirror was not, and in the eyes that are looking at you, you can navigate, as you look, if smiling, that's all right! Remember the words of the song: "I look at you like a mirror ..." I saw only the smile and eyes full of admiration! And there's nothing more attractive than the eyes that look at you with admiration! We all need, in confirming its exclusivity.
At our second meeting, I noticed that his pants were too short and shoes looked awful! But it was the second date, and it was no longer important. The first impression was made. I'm sure if he was late, I would have sat quietly and evaluated him, pulled out all the flaws. Oh, short pants, I would have immediately noticed!I think we can deliberately plan the first meeting, when you go to meet each other. Now everyone has a cell phone. Do not put the meeting on the bench, or in a restaurant, where you can sit and wait. What if you come on time, but he/she comes an hour earlier. Arrange to meet near the monument, and when you come, please call and ask you to go forward.
Knowledge of this technique can greatly increase the chances that the first impression was pleasant. Remember, you do not get a second chance to make a first impression on each other!
Sincerely,
Your Svetlana.
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